Deadly attack at Nigerian University

Bayero University campus is under attack!!! There were bomb explosions where students were holding service in church. There were also gun shots and it is reported that more than 15 people are dead due to the attack. Please pray for the students, their parents and for Nigeria. This attack is so low. How can one justify killing innocent children? What reasons warrants the killings of innocent lives? This goes to show you the level of intelligence of these barbarians. Such horrific acts can only be carried out by demon possessed individuals!!! God have mercy on Nigeria!!!

Bodies removed in front of Aminu Kano teaching hospital

Power/Money is a powerful Aphrodisiac

Why is there so much noise about Simon Cowell’s allegedly affair with beautiful Dannii Minogue? He is powerful and she is beautiful, so what is the big news?  It always makes me laugh when people judge especially women. Given the opportunity, I am sure these women judging will drop everything to spend a night with Simon Cowell. I mean, the dude is generous with his money. How many women will not be swept off their feet to be with a rich man taking them all over the world? Whom with his connections you can have whatever job or position you desire, being treated like a princess, access to mansions etc?  I say leave them alone!!

Dannii Minogue and Simon Cowell

Very tasteful!!! Indeed!!!

This is supposedly to highlight about female genital mutilation in Africa.

This happened in Sweden and the culture minister joined in cutting the cake. How is this highlighting the case of genital mutilation in Africa? 

I made this!!!!

Oh my goodness, I am seriously buzzing now. I went online, followed a recipe and viola!!! I made this!!!

Toad in a hole

And it sure does taste fabulous!!!! Yum! Yum!!!

Interracial marriage!!!

Some people are against interracial marriages and some people are not bothered by it. Some people are envious of it. I have noticed this enviousness is prominent among black ladies married to white men. For some of these black women, they want to be the only ladies married to a white man and when they see another black lady with a white man, their jealousy claws comes out. I have also noticed competition among these black ladies. They compete from who is more 'white' to who lives 'life' the most. Really pathetic!! Some black women really suffer from slave trade mentality. They believe everything 'white' is superior and are even racist against their fellow blacks. Another set of black ladies envious of interracial couples are those who really want/desire a white husband but cannot seem to find one. So they are full of envy on those who are with their white partners. For me, it does not matter who one marries as long as they are happy in the marriage. Enjoy this beautiful picture of Nigerian's Anita Hogan with her beautiful family.

Beautiful family

Unbelieveable!!

Honestly, I know that there is no evil that man is not capable of but to actually read about it, just brings chills to my body. 

 Jorge da Silveira (left) and Isabel Pires

Jorge Beltrao Negromonte, his wife Isabel Pires, 51, and his mistress Bruna da Silva, 25 are cannibals who belong to a sect that preaches 'the purification of the world and the reduction of its population'. It is reported that the trio lured women to their house promising them work as a nanny. They then killed these women and used their flesh to make stuffed pastries known as empanadas that they sold to neighbours. My goodness, how wicked can man be?  How twisted can man’s mind be? And as for eating pasties and meat at places I am not sure of, I have to think twice!!

Celebrity fashion

Melody Thornton (Pussycat doll)

All I have to say is that she has got a lot of balls to wear that!!! 

Would you trust your girlfriends with your husband/partner?

I was reading about Michelle Mone’s heart break on seeing her husband with her former employee who was once her good and close friend. Michelle’s friendship with Samantha Bunn was such that Michelle allowed her to stay in her home and even eat with her children. It was said that Michelle had taken Samantha under her wing. According to Michelle, the affair destroyed her marriage. However, according to Michelle’s husband, he was not having an affair with Samantha Bunn before the crash of their marriage. OK, so he is now seeing his wife’s former employee and friend. Does it make it less hurtful? The betrayal on both sides must be so devastating for Michelle.

Michelle Mone -Ultimo boss

Samantha Bunn

Michelle and husband Michael

After reading this, my question is, will or can you trust your girlfriends with your husband or partner? We all know that there are some ‘friends’ that are enemies in disguise. They pretend to be your friend and in their heart despise you for being happy or being in a happy relationship. They can’t stomach your happiness. They are just close to you to monitor your life. They will jump at any given opportunity to destroy you. They want to hurt you and are looking for the perfect opportunity to do that. The challenging fact is that it is difficult to know which of your friends is the ‘Judas’. So how much freedom do you give to your girlfriends (both married and unmarried) to be with your spouse? Can you leave them alone and go on errands or travel etc. I know some of you will jump to the argument that if you trust your man then you have no problem so that aside since this topic is about girlfriends, do you totally trust your girlfriends that they will not betray you?

Happy Easter!!!

Happy Easter everyone!!! I hope you all had a lovely holiday? I certainly did. I celebrated by going to church today. Got home and relaxed with my family. Played with my new phone. I was bought a new smart phone yesterday. Finally, I can join the club of people with nice phones lol!! But, I nearly had a headache yesterday trying to get it started. I first had to get it connected, download this and that... call customer center to register phone etc... It almost ruined the fun for me. But everything is up and running now and I love it. I am like a little girl with it.


On another note, there is news that bombs detonated in Nigeria killing many. Apparently, the culprits were on their way to church when it went off killing many. I was so sad to hear this. What is there to be gained in killing innocent people? I was so angry that I wanted to rant about it but I changed my mind. I think what is needed are solutions and not just stating the problems. So I have decided to sit down, write the problems and see if I can proffer solutions. 

Dannii Minogue four-year romance with Kris Smith breake down

Dannii Minogue, baby Ethan and Kris Smith

I love this couple and was so shocked they split up!!! They seemed like the real deal. 

Dannii confirming the news on twitter.

10 year old Colombian girl gives birth to a healthy baby!!!

The 10 year old girl had her baby by cesarean section becoming one of the youngest ever mothers to have a healthy baby. Why would anyone in their sane mind want to have sex with a 10 year old? She is just a baby!!! I read comments left by people on this story and some argued on the grounds of culture, religion etc.
allowed men to have sex with a 10 year old. OK, leaving the moral argument aside, how does this little girl understand what has just happened to her? What support is there for her? So many questions running through my mind now!!!

Working from home

I am just thinking about innovative ideas to start a home business. I must say it is pretty challenging and I am so cross with myself for not having come up with an idea. I want to start my own business and I am mentally tired of coming up with ideas and dismissing them for lack of generating any income. I am doing lots of research, reading etc. I guess that once one becomes a mum, priorities change and adjustments have to be made. I can't begin to think of leaving my little angel in a day care now. But while I am at home I feel I need to be doing something to generate income. What to do???

Hmmmmnnnn!!!!

Betty & Farai Mbereko

I do not know how true this story is but I was so shocked by it that I wanted to share it. This is Betty Mbereko (40) and Farai Mbereko (23) who are mother and son. They have decided to get married and she is 6 months pregnant for her son. When Betty’s husband passed away, she decided to marry her son rather than her husband’s brothers (which is customary in some African tradition. i.e to marry one’s husband’s brothers).  

I am not here to judge but this is just so shocking. Is this not wrong on all levels? I believe that in her culture it is also an abomination (They come from  Mwenezi in Masvingo). She was even warned to break off their marriage or leave the village.They chose to leave the village. I really hope it is a joke!!

George Galloway seems to love his foreign women!!!

George Galloway seems to have a thing for foreign women. Apart from his first wife Elaine Fuffe, his other wives are of a foreign descent. Oh! By the way, George Galloway recently got married to his 27 year old bride who is said to be two years younger than his first child. Congratulations George!!! 

                                               George Galloway and Amineh Abu-zayyad (Wife no. 2)

 George Galloway and Rima Husseini (Wife no. 3)

                                          George Galloway and Putri Gayatri Pertiwi (Wife no. 4)

Girl to remain a virgin until the age of 18!!!

Her mum Jenny Teague gave birth to her while she was 12 years old. Sasha, 15 is determined for history not to repeat itself. I say good on you babes.

Trying to lose some weight.

I have been on a strict exercise regime after having my beautiful daughter, I can't seem to shed the weight. In fact, the weight keeps piling on. It is not helped by my cravings for anything sweet. I have been stuffing my face with walnut cake, biscuits, fizzy drinks etc. I was away on holiday and looked at some of the pictures taken and I nearly threw up on the amount of weight I have piled on. When we got back from our holiday, I promised myself that I will be good and try to exercise everyday. True to my word, I started eating sensible, went for long walks with my daughter. At first, it didn't seem like I was losing any weight. I spoke to my sister about my disappointment with my weight and she encouraged me to continue my long walks and that it will shift. I added Zumba to my schedule. So last week, I took the courage to weigh myself and I have lost some weight. Not as much as I wanted to but it is a start. None of my pre-pregnancy clothes fit me now but I am determined to get back to my pre-pregnancy figure. If Victoria Beckham can do it, so can I!!! I have been naughty these last few days scoffing my face with cakes and sweets but I will make it up with some rigorous exercise. So I have about one and a half stone to loose. As a full time mum for now, I cannot go to the gym so all I can do is portion control, walking and Zumba when baby is asleep. For all the mothers out there, is there any other exercise I can do while looking after my baby?

Happy Month of April!!!

Wishing you all a happy new month filled with all the wonderful things you wish for yourself. God bless!!!