Would you trust your girlfriends with your husband/partner?

I was reading about Michelle Mone’s heart break on seeing her husband with her former employee who was once her good and close friend. Michelle’s friendship with Samantha Bunn was such that Michelle allowed her to stay in her home and even eat with her children. It was said that Michelle had taken Samantha under her wing. According to Michelle, the affair destroyed her marriage. However, according to Michelle’s husband, he was not having an affair with Samantha Bunn before the crash of their marriage. OK, so he is now seeing his wife’s former employee and friend. Does it make it less hurtful? The betrayal on both sides must be so devastating for Michelle.

Michelle Mone -Ultimo boss

Samantha Bunn

Michelle and husband Michael

After reading this, my question is, will or can you trust your girlfriends with your husband or partner? We all know that there are some ‘friends’ that are enemies in disguise. They pretend to be your friend and in their heart despise you for being happy or being in a happy relationship. They can’t stomach your happiness. They are just close to you to monitor your life. They will jump at any given opportunity to destroy you. They want to hurt you and are looking for the perfect opportunity to do that. The challenging fact is that it is difficult to know which of your friends is the ‘Judas’. So how much freedom do you give to your girlfriends (both married and unmarried) to be with your spouse? Can you leave them alone and go on errands or travel etc. I know some of you will jump to the argument that if you trust your man then you have no problem so that aside since this topic is about girlfriends, do you totally trust your girlfriends that they will not betray you?