Thursday 23 June 2016

Domestic violence - Dad-to-be punched pregnant partner in the face in row over her weight and cooking

Emperor Oludapo, 40, broke the 34-year-old woman’s eye socket with a single ‘hard’ punch, before leaving her to seek medical help alone. A police officer who saw her described the injury as like a ‘popped fish eye’. The court heard the couple met through a friend and began to see one another at church, but a couple of months into their relationship he began to make ‘cruel remarks’ about her weight and the ‘standard of her cooking’, prosecutor David Temkin said.


Emperor Oludapo 

He then prevented her from communicating with friends and took to her checking up on her on Facebook, the court heard.

On February 8 the pair returned from a medical appointment to her home, where she noticed he was talking to someone on the phone about money.

He then asked her about money, becoming angry when he learnt she had spent it on food that had ‘gone to waste’. He then grabbed a bottle and threatened to smash her head in, before punching her to the head, causing her to fall off the couch.

Later, at the hospital, the Nigeria-born victim maintained she had fallen. But when she encountered a nurse who spoke Yoruba and confided in her, leading to Oludapo’s arrest. The victim had to have surgery for a fractured eye socket, amid fears she would lose the sight in her right eye. The operation was a success but she has some ‘double vision’.

Sentencing, Judge Mansell told Oludapo: “You very soon became abusive, repeatedly telling she needed to lose weight, therefore knocking her confidence, and criticising her cooking to such an extent that she asked friends to show her how to cook. You became controlling as well.

“She was an extremely vulnerable victim, particularly because of the manner in which you had treated her throughout the relationship, reducing her self-confidence to rock bottom, but mainly because she was 13 weeks pregnant at the time of this serious assault.”

Making Oludapo subject to an indefinite restraining order, the judge said: “Given the fact she is to give birth to your child, if that causes an issue you may apply for an amendment of it.”





Culled from Manchester Evening News: http://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/emperor-oludapo-pregnant-punched-partner-11513993#ICID=Android_MENNewsApp_AppShare


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